The sexual freedom we have today seemed as far away as a light-year just a short time ago. Over time, we’ve reached this level, but masturbation remains a taboo for many people, including women. There are social and historical factors that explain why, since childhood, men have been more comfortable with their bodies and have discovered more ways to experience pleasure than women have.
As for the current situation, female masturbation has become a way to experience more pleasure than you’ve ever felt before—whether with a partner or on your own. That’s why we’ve compiled the most important tips on female masturbation.
Before you begin: Get yourself ready
If using your fingers for masturbation doesn’t seem sufficient to you, you can opt for a vibrator or specially designed deodorant containers that you believe won’t harm your skin. Before choosing the method that will give you the most pleasure, you need to pay attention to these points:
Don’t feel ashamed of masturbation
For various reasons linked to machismo and conservatism, many women feel ashamed of masturbating. The most important thing is to stay calm. Touching your own body is entirely your own business. Masturbation doesn’t make you a “bad” or “dirty” woman—on the contrary, it’s a way to get to know your own body and feel more confident both in and out of bed.
Get to Know Your Body
Not everyone has the intimacy with their own body that they should. If this is true for you, don’t be ashamed to get to know yourself before masturbating.
The Atmosphere
Did you know that the atmosphere is actually the most important factor before you start masturbating? You deserve a good atmosphere. If possible, set the mood the way you want it: candlelight, music, and scented oils.
Stimuli
Our minds can be an endless source of excitement when it comes to arousal. Some people may get in the mood by watching female masturbation videos, lesbian videos, or male masturbation videos.
What Are the Different Masturbation Techniques?
Once you’ve overcome any potential embarrassment using the tips above, find a comfortable spot where your hands can easily reach your vagina. As a suggestion, lie down on the bed and relax...
One of the main reasons people think they don’t know how to masturbate is jumping right in and focusing solely on the pleasure of the genital area.
You should show the same sensitivity to other parts of your body and remember that your body is a whole.
Love your body and every little part of it. Pamper yourself and start by gently touching your breasts and inner thighs.
Once you start touching your body, continue for as long as you need. Slowly work your way down to your groin area, spreading your legs slightly. Run your finger along your lower region, and most importantly, discover the spots that bring you pleasure.
Start with clitoral massage—this is the sacred organ whose primary function is to bring you pleasure through stimulation.
The most exciting movements vary for every woman and should intensify as pleasure increases. One suggestion is to start with circular motions all around the clitoris—including the surrounding area—to find which parts excite you the most.
At this point, it’s quite likely that you’ll begin to feel the clitoris’s natural lubrication and swelling (it can swell up to 2 cm when aroused). Since clitoral orgasm is one of the most common types among women, it’s common for many women to reach orgasm this way.
If you haven’t reached climax yet, or if you’d prefer to enhance the experience before orgasm, it’s time to continue exploring the clitoris and search for the G-spot through vaginal masturbation.
To do this, if your vagina is already naturally lubricated or has a small amount of lubricant, insert 1 or 2 fingers from bottom to top (like a “hook”). When you feel a spongy texture toward your abdomen, that may be your G-spot.
Continue stimulating that area, and if you feel pressure on the bladder—which feels like a small sac—keep going. This sensation is normal.
Now find the movements that give you the most pleasure, clear your mind, and let the orgasm come.
You can also get various ideas for masturbation from our article on the sex positions that turn women on the most.
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